Precarious

This week has felt...precarious, at best. I've shared here, maybe over-shared at times, about my in-laws and the weird ways that our extended families relate to one another...and there has been much family relating this week. 

My father-in-law has been in less than optimum health for some time. At 85, he has trouble keeping his diabetes under control, so he ends up in the hospital once or twice a year to get things straightened out. This time, the hospital visit came with some heart troubles, and things don't look great. Sweetie's week has been full of difficult conversations and more emotions than he is used to, in general, and mine has too.

Sweetie's mom and dad have been married since 1964, so these moments are hardest on her. With all that this family went through in 2016 (if you don't know, go back and read some of my posts between Feb-April of that year) watching Grandpa's health decline is hard on our nephews, too. Add in difficult talks about next steps that may mean imminent goodbyes, and precarious is a great word for this week.

That's not to say that there have not been good moments along the way. I asked Dad what year he and Mom got married, making conversation that I hoped would bring him some joy. His eyes lit up and filled with tears as he told us about meeting and marrying Mom, and how she "was the prettiest girl I ever saw," and "She still is!"

I'm glad they've had the chance to spend some time together this week. It's so difficult when they have to be apart, since they both have mobility issues... and we really can't say when he will be able to go home. 

And there's been some knitting...mostly on my sock, since that's the best for portable, hospital knitting. 

Tomorrow is never guaranteed, so we are trying to not put off loving our loved ones as well as we can, while we can...and we remember that, despite all this, God is still good.  I hope that you will do the same.

Thanks for stopping by, and thank you to all of the friends who have reached out and checked in with us along the way. 

Knit and Love in Good Health, friends! 

Our youngest grand, my daughter and my mom...fun photo to close a hard week.