So, you all know what's going on in the here and now of our lives. You know that Pretty and Mr. Pretty are currently living their Happily-Ever-After. But who are these fuzzy people?!?
He's 19, and graduated high school last year. He's smart, but shy, and he recently joined the Navy. He was accepted to the "Nuke" program, and he'll be leaving for boot camp in a couple of months, and then he'll work on nuclear submarines. Today he is marrying his high school sweetheart, and looking forward to many happy years together with the love of his life.
Wow. They have no idea. They have everything going for them, and nothing at all. Life is going to be hard sometimes, but today they don't care. Today is the happiest day of their young lives. Awwww, isn't that sweet? But that was long ago and far away.
Fast forward, two-and-a-half decades:
She's 40-something, plays with yarn, and she loves the Internet and her electronic gadgets. Her children are grown, and she has been married for more than half her life. She works full-time as secretary in their church, knits once a week with her friends, and she is thrilled to be a gramma.
He's in his 40s and likes sports and being outdoors, and he also enjoys reading. His children are grown, and he has been married for more than half his life. He is a service technician by trade, loves his Kindle, and he can fix just about anything. Pop-Pop is how he's known by their darling Peanut.
Wait, can these really be the same people? Yes, and no. They are the same, yet completely different, and there were times they thought they might not make it. They have thought, "This isn't what I bargained for," and, "You're not the person I married..." Still, they stuck it out, "grew up" and grew together. Although they still have their differences, they are livin' the dream, baby!...happily ever after (most of the time).
So, Meatloaf, you've got it half right...it was definitely "long ago, and it was far away," but I don't think it gets it any better for us than it is today!
What's your story?
PS - Happy Anniversary, Pop Pop! I love you more today than ever!
PS - Happy Anniversary, Pop Pop! I love you more today than ever!